NEW YORK (AP) – Treats made and delivered by neighbors. Fresh garden plantings excavated from a 6-foot safe. Travel around the world sets up room by room at home.
This year's Mother's Day is a mixture of love and extra imagination, as families do without the usual brunches and huggy meetings.
As the pandemic persists in keeping families indoors or at a safe social distance, online research has increased for creative ways to make mothers feel special.
In the absence of help from schools and nannies, uninitiated parents are on craft service with the children. Other loved ones are navigating the rules of non-visitors in hospitals and facilities for the elderly.
Some medical facilities are participating in the collection of voice and video recordings from isolated relatives when patients are unable to manage the technology on their own.
In the suburb of St. Louis, Steve Turner and his family hope to face FaceTime with their 96-year-old mother Beverly, but they plan something else too. Her birthday coincides with Mother's Day this year.
"We are going to create a great Mother's Day birthday banner signed by the children and grandchildren who live here," said Turner. “She loves butterflies and we are going to draw a little. We are working with the house to find a place where we can stand outside a window so that she can see us. "
Anna Francese Gass, in New Canaan, Connecticut, is lying with her husband and three children and will enjoy her usual Mother's Day breakfast in a bed of rubber eggs, lightly burnt toast and VERY milky coffee. But the day will not include his own mother, who lives nearby.
“I ordered a bunch of narcissus and tulip bulbs online, and the kids and I are planning to plant them on her flower bed. She can supervise from the window. I just know that it will put a huge smile on your face, ”said Francese Gass.
In Alameda, California, Zaria Zinn, 23, is sheltered at home with her parents and younger sister. Knowing how much their mother loves and misses traveling, they are transforming their home and neighborhood into a trip around the world with the help of decorations and virtual tours online.
"We made a DIY passport for her and we are creating stamps for each location," she said.
Your itinerary: Machu Picchu, Paris and Iceland, with some DIY spa time and a Hollywood-style movie night.
Making the most of Mother's Day in isolation is a concern for Google search users. The company said the term "quarantined Mother's Day gifts" has recently increased by 600% in the United States. Among the 335 million Pinterest users, searches for "Mother's Day at home" increased by 2.971%, the company said.
In Rochester, New York, Melissa Mueller-Douglas and her 7-year-old daughter, Nurah, planned to reunite with mom and daughter at a hotel for a Mother's Day sleepover. When it was canceled because of the pandemic, they were busy on Pinterest looking for ideas to take the party home, just the two of them.
They have masks with rhinestones to decorate, threads for mother and daughter bracelets, instant film for a photo shoot and a chocolate fountain bought at Walmart. Dad and Nurah's 3-year-old brother are going to paint together downstairs after a bike ride between mother and son earlier in the day.
“We reused a sparkling tablecloth and made giant flowers out of tissue paper for a photo shoot setting. We will create a secret handshake and write in top secret newspapers for each other, ”said Mueller-Douglas. "We are calling it The Best Day of the Sleepover."
Kayla Hockman, 26, in Los Angeles, is concerned about her 77-year-old grandmother in Fontana, California, about 50 miles away. Usually, she and her sister treat her and her mother for brunch or an adventure.
"My grandmother has been depressed lately since she hasn't been out of the house for two months and is slowly losing hope," said Hockman. “She and my grandfather have a lot of problems walking now. This whole thing of not being able to see someone is really affecting them a lot ".
To cheer you up, they are planning a party on your lawn.
"It will be a surprise Mother's Day brunch with momosas and paint," said Hockman. "We are going to set up for all of us to paint a sunflower, her absolute favorite. She will paint on her balcony and we will be on the lawn, all six feet tall.
Willie Greer, in Memphis, thought of food, enlisting the help of a neighbor to make her mother's nut pie recipe and deliver it to Dallas to brighten her Mother's Day isolation. He said the neighbor was happy to do so after he sent the prescription.
“My brothers and I will also be creating a thank you video for Mom. As we cannot all be together, each of us will record a short message and in the end we will all sing & # 39; s Mother & # 39; s Love & # 39; of Gena Hill, "he said." I'm sure this is the part where my mother cries her eyes.
Today, virtual experiences are all we have, so Lisa Hill in Portland, Oregon, decided to embrace that notion for her 79-year-old mother in Stuart, Florida, after meeting a cooking instructor while volunteering to prepare meals at a shelter.
Hill is cooking alongside Lauren Chandler, who conducted her home cooking sessions online with a twist: she is participating in a free 45-minute session for customers to donate.
“I feel so far away from her. I don't know how to cook for her. I can't visit, "said Hill." She is nervous about everything that is happening now and it will be a good social interaction. "